13th June 2008

Paid less but earning more

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I can’t stop thinking about something my father said to me yesterday while we were driving:

Whatever you decide to do, do what you love. And earn some money for it.

And it’s left me perplexed because 1) I am trying to figure out what I am going to love to do, and 2) I am trying to focus more on the “love” part and less on the money.  You don’t exactly quit your job to stay home with your kid to then worry about how you’re going to make money, right?

I’ve had plenty of opportunities to rake in the dough, but I am turning them down, even if it means I have less disposable cash to spend on anything that doesn’t come from Target. (Because I can strategically shop at Target - you know, buying the household necessities, but throwing in a $10 tank top that won’t throw off the credit card statement.)

What I’m aiming to find is the perfect mix of volunteer work that will reward me as much as a shopping spree would. So I ran for the board of my local community, gave a silly one-minute shpiel on why I’d be a good board member and got on the next day in some random post-election day miracle.

I don’t know if I’m going to like it, but the people seem nice, and the cause good. I love where I live and I am committed to helping the community. It’s a different world I’m entering. One that I’m honestly not used to.  One where public service outweighs cute shoes.

Month seven here I come. I think I’m ready.

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There are currently 5 responses to “Paid less but earning more”

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  1. 1 On June 13th, 2008, Amy@UWM said:

    Good for you!!!! Funny, I’d been thinking about politics/public service as a future career path for myself lately. Don’t worry about the money. Find what you love first and then money will eventually come.

    Looking forward to reading about this new path!

  2. 2 On June 13th, 2008, Nicole/wksocmom said:

    That’s so funny, when I was little my dad said to me - your goal in life should be find what you love,
    then someone to pay you for it :)

  3. 3 On June 14th, 2008, Emily said:

    Go you! Keep us posted on how things go and make sure no one finds your blog or you won’t be able to bitch about them on here. Haha…just kidding, kind of.

  4. 4 On June 15th, 2008, caitlin said:

    I had a feeling that was going to work out for you . . . Congrats. They are lucky to have you.

  5. 5 On June 16th, 2008, Alex Elliot said:

    That sounds pretty cool for me! The best advice I ever got about being a SAHM, while knowing that one day I’ll go back to vet school was just to enjoy this now and when I wake up in the mornings and start thinking that I would rather be there then here, I’ll know it’s time to start getting my application materials together.

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