21st May 2008

A renewed sense of belonging

posted in Mom Rants, Mom Friends, Blogging Rants |

I’ve felt, over the last 5 months or so, that I’ve lost my blogging mojo.  Since I left my job, I’ve been wondering just exactly what to write about.  When I was working and writing, I felt comradery and sympathy from all working moms.  I honestly never got into blogging for the community aspect, really.  I started my blog because I like to write my random thoughts and wanted a place to document such experiences as this and this.  I’ve met some terrific working mom friends along the way, and I cherish our relationships.

But now that I’m not working any longer, I’ve felt more comfortable with my “real life” friends, but less so with my online counterparts.  Perhaps it’s that I no longer feel so alone and don’t have the same worries anymore.  Whatever the case, I’ve been a little down about the blog when I really should be celebrating my self-imposed exile into SAHM-land. 

This week, however, my hope has been renewed. It’s amazing what wine and good food will do to one’s mood. This week, I had the opportunity to attend a dinner and panel discussion put on by the amazing Maria Bailey.  I dined in style (amidst freaky murals) with amazing women like Emily, Bridget, Steph, and Amy.  I observed a terrific panel discussion (amidst babysitting for the cutest little peanut ever!) where smart women gave hope to continuing a productive dialogue between marketers and bloggers.  I lunched with a new friend, who I know I’ll be sharing many more lunches with.  And I went home yesterday afternoon thinking that I now know why many mommy bloggers savor their friendships of those they meet online.  It’s not just because they can compliment you in person on your fabulous new diaper bag (thanks, Emily), but it’s because you all have a bond that goes deeper than just a playdate in the park.

We all put ourselves out there into the vast unknown of the world wide web hoping to be found.  And yesterday I achieved that. I really felt like I finally belonged.  Now I just have to figure out a way to get my sorry a** to BlogHer to see the rest of you all. Any ideas?

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  1. 1 On May 21st, 2008, PunditMom said:

    Oh, yes! You must come. I would miss you.

  2. 2 On May 21st, 2008, Adventures In Babywearing said:

    I’ve got ideas… let me work on it!

    Steph

  3. 3 On May 21st, 2008, To Think Is To Create said:

    I do have a couple ideas, I’ll email you later tonight when I’m back home!

  4. 4 On May 21st, 2008, Emily Smith said:

    It’s always great to have a fun lunch with friends and get your mind working again! Can’t wait to see what blog posts come from it all!

  5. 5 On May 22nd, 2008, Emily said:

    What a wonderful post! It strikes such a chord with me. I got the same great sense of belonging, and just loved loved loved meeting you and getting to spend the time together!!!!!!!!

  6. 6 On May 22nd, 2008, caitlin said:

    Love this post. Thanks so much for including me in the event!

  7. 7 On May 22nd, 2008, mothergoosemouse said:

    So glad to have met you and spent a wonderful morning and lunch together! Thank you again for taking such good care of Oliver too.

    I love meeting bloggers, but I especially love meeting those who make me wish they lived next door - like you.

  8. 8 On May 22nd, 2008, ellinghouse said:

    isn’t it fun when you find freaks that understand you? Love it….

  9. 9 On May 23rd, 2008, mj aka sugarmama said:

    Glad to hear the mojo is back! And I would certainly hope that you can join us in Blogher. I’ll definitely let you know if anything comes up on ideas.

  10. 10 On May 24th, 2008, Shari Schmidt said:

    Don’t be so hard on yourself. I think we all feel like we’ve lost our enthusiasm for things at different times. I feel like that about everything once in a while. It’s just a natural part of the process.

  11. 11 On May 26th, 2008, Shannanb aka Mommy Bits said:

    I think blogging just ebbs and flows. I am glad you feel like flowing again!

    I too and trying to figure out a way to attend blogher. It’s just so darn pricy for the flight and room.

  12. 12 On May 27th, 2008, Alex Elliot said:

    I think a couple places are giving away BlogHer conference tickets like the Parent Bloggers Network. Last year the Toronto Mamas did as well. I really hope you can go!

  13. 13 On May 30th, 2008, that girl said:

    Sounds like fun - enjoying your site.

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